Here’s an updated list of classes I’m teaching currently. If you or your org book teachers hit me up.
Note, I’ll add published slides/decks/handouts here, not all classes have them or are in a state I’m comfortable sharing
Teacher info
Zee (he/they) has been in the kink community since turning 18, upon stepping into the old SF Citadel. They have been teaching both in and outside of kink since he was in high school and in the kink world for nearly two decades. During this time, they has served as both a house top and bottom. During COVID-19, they decided to focus more energy on kink community education and has spent the years since then pursuing that at fullsteam with private and public engagements. Zee teaches classes for the newest newbies and seasoned kinksters alike for organizations like Dark Odyssey, KinkFest, Society of Janus, Wicked Grounds, After Dark Events, and Bonobo Network. They also offer private coaching, and personalized small-group classes. He has been designing the classes he has wanted to see as a queer impact switch. Their classes focus on edutainment - come for the material, but stay for the fun and highly relevant demos!
Impact Classes
CRACKing the Code: A Beginner’s Course on Whips, Quirts, and Dragon Tails
Discover the nuanced world of whips, quirts, and dragon tails! In this beginner-friendly workshop, we bridge the gap between traditional impact play and single-tails, with a holistic approach that emphasizes safety, skill development, and practical techniques. Through demonstrations and detailed instruction, attendees will learn essential concepts from throwing methods and body targeting, to proper equipment care. Together, we’ll debunk common misconceptions and break down the barriers that often make whip play seem intimidating. Whether you’re curious about expanding your impact play repertoire or seeking to build a solid foundation in longer-range implements, this class offers a comprehensive introduction to the taxonomy, safety considerations, and practical skills needed to explore these versatile tools responsibly and confidently.
This class can be taught as a lecture and demo only OR as a 50/50 lecture and hands-on skill class teaching basic throwing tecninques where space allows.
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The Cult of WhipCraft: Advanced Skills for Enticing Whip Scenes
FKA Whipping up your scenes
Unlock the artistry of whip play and become a whip evangelist! In this comprehensive workshop, the focus shifts from technical skills to creating dynamic scenes. With emphasis on crafting memorable experiences rather than just throwing accurately, we’ll teach how to seamlessly integrate whip play into your scenes while maintaining a deep connection with your partner. Learn to build trust through skillful negotiation, master the nuances of intensity control, and discover a whole new world of whipcraft. Regardless of previous experience level, you’ll leave with practical skills for vetting play partners, creating engaging scene progressions, and confidently incorporating movement to expand your play possibilities.
This class can be taught as a lecture and demo only OR as a 50/50 lecture and hands-on skill class teaching more advanced throwing tecninques where space allows.
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Sensually Stingy: Tools for building connection through the pain
This workshop focuses on how to build beautifully sensual scenes with canes, quirts, and whips. Zee and their demo partner will demonstrate techniques for building closeness and connection, while outlining the difference between sensual and sexual. You’ll learn how to use touch, language, and sensation to build intimacy with your partner(s), while balancing scenes for the pain-shy and the pain sluts. We’ll also cover the various range of stingy toys, from the sharp sting of a whip, to the deep, long-lasting burn of a cane. Through communication and negotiation, we show off these often feared toys in tender and caring ways, along with specific techniques and strategies for hitting multiple parts of the body, including the “standard” butt, back, and thighs, as well as the chest and even genitals.
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Beating Their Meat - Genital Torture for Fun and Pleasure
Genital Torture—Just the thought makes us wince in pain. For those brave enough to explore its depths, it offers an intense avenue of play. This class delves into genital torture for both sadists and masochists, regardless of gender. Adding this intense form of play expands sensations and connection between partners.
Led by Zee, the class explores a wide array of techniques to enhance scenes and expand understanding of possibilities within genital torture. With two demo partners, one of each genital type, Zee offers hands-on demonstrations, from light sensation play to more intense torment. Safety and ensuring well-being are key focuses.
The class also emphasizes communication and consent, teaching negotiation of boundaries and limits, and establishing clear dialogue before, during, and after a scene. Whether a seasoned player or curious explorer, this class equips participants with knowledge and tools to approach genital torture with confidence, care, and creativity
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Long Term Lockup: Chastity play for fun and frustration
If you’re thinking of locking up for the first time or you’re ready to throw away the keys, there’s a ton to learn about chastity. In this workshop, Zee, who’s been playing with chastity since 2015, and spent over a year locked up in a tight little cage, will be discussing a host of topics and busting myths. What cage materials are best? Is an expensive cage really that much better than the $15 dollar cage on Amazon? How do you measure for your chastity cage? When should you unlock, and should you really be reaching for that superglue?
Unlike those who wear these devices, chastity has absolutely burst onto the scene in the last 5 years, but with it have come a whole host of fud, fantasies, and falsities. Whether you’re a keyholder or ready to be locked up, there is a lot to dive into. Let’s break down power dynamics, self-locking, and impulse control, as well as fun ways to tease, edge, and explore the deep sexual frustration that so many of us desire with chastity.
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Negotiation, Kink, and D/S
Consent and Negotiation for Pick-Up Play
This workshop will elevate your negotiation and consent skills to the next level. This workshop is designed with queer people and bodies in mind, to guide people of all backgrounds (and experience levels!) through the fun, but often intimidating act of pick-up play. You will leave feeling more confident, have more clarity of intent, and be better able to communicate your authentic desires. This class will equip you with practical tools that are your compass through the world of kink and sex negotiation, and the journey of self-discovery it entails. You will leave with better tools for asking for what you want, saying no (and saying yes!), negotiating with other queers, frameworks for creating the scenes you want, and asking the magic questions that elevate your play to the next level This class is designed around using roleplay to practice what we’re learning in real time. My favorite part of this workshop is the number of people who have met in class, and through improvised negotiation, realized they are making real connections. In the class we cover; Using unpressured language to make receiving No’s an ease instead of a burden. Negotiating with queer people and queer bodies, breaking down gender-normed habits Building a safe consent container to play within Using specifc asks to focus in on getting what you actually want
This is one of the most popular classes I teach and has been taught for WickedGrounds, Bonobo, and is a fixture of several private parties.
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High Impact Negotiations: Tools for Negotiating Varsity Level Impact
Impact and sensation play are some of the most approachable activities out there – it’s where many of us get our start in kink. But taking these scenes to the next level requires nuance, discussion, and a whole other level of negotiation. In this class, Zee will cover tips, tricks, techniques, an# Get the fingerprint of what’s on the server d tools for negotiating both the most advanced scenes involving sensual touch, heavy hits, mind fucks, genital play, big bruises; and even how to best approach negotiating with total newbies as a seasoned pro as a top or a bottom.
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Switching is for Sluts: How to scene when you can’t decide whose on top!
In this workshop, Zee and his demo partner blur the boundaries between top and bottom, submissive and dominant. This class was built as a response to the many comments and questions Zee received after their own switchy scenes in the dungeon. The workshop will cover how to negotiate and flow through the scene with two switchy people, how to top from the bottom, and bottom from the top. Strategies for shifting mental gears from oneside of the slash, to the other, and back again. Switches really do have more fun, and we’ll prove it in this workshop!
Impact Mindfucks - Using Your Brain To Make the Most of Your Masochist
Do you have a bitchy brat, a bottomless bottom, or a master masochist in your life? Come to Impact Mindfucks to learn techniques, poses, sensations, and more to up your impact game with out needing to go to the gym. Instructor Zee, a heavy impact switch and a true sadomasochist, and their demo partner will cover a range of scenarios and topics, including negotiation and safety, different games, and specific positions to play in to maximze your impact scenes. This class is great for tops and bottoms to learn how to get the most out of their bodies, minds, and fun games to play together.
Whishing I taught something else? Email me contact@call-me-z.com